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		<title>By: Elly</title>
		<link>http://www.annettecolby.com/blog/2009/08/05/top-ten-best-things-to-say-to-someone-who-is-depressed/comment-page-1/#comment-3321</link>
		<dc:creator>Elly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 22:49:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is brilliant. I wish someone would do these things for me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is brilliant. I wish someone would do these things for me.</p>
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		<title>By: Kathleen Fillmore</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathleen Fillmore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2011 01:27:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We all have choices to make.</description>
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		<title>By: Jayson Fail</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jayson Fail</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Nov 2011 21:27:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John Witherspoon~ Never read a book through merely because you have begun it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John Witherspoon~ Never read a book through merely because you have begun it.</p>
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		<title>By: dan thomas</title>
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		<dc:creator>dan thomas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2011 14:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi i was hoping omebody could help me with this problem...my fiance is having family problems...mother divorced...father hopelessly angry and dominating...step mother mean...his life is full of restrictions...stays depressed..negative thoughts...uncontrollable anger...suicidal  tendency....can i know what to day to him so that he calms down during his &#039;episodes&#039; ?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi i was hoping omebody could help me with this problem&#8230;my fiance is having family problems&#8230;mother divorced&#8230;father hopelessly angry and dominating&#8230;step mother mean&#8230;his life is full of restrictions&#8230;stays depressed..negative thoughts&#8230;uncontrollable anger&#8230;suicidal  tendency&#8230;.can i know what to day to him so that he calms down during his &#8216;episodes&#8217; ?</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Annette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Annette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 May 2011 01:41:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Talin,
I understand how difficult it is not only to be depressed, but also to realize that it&#039;s something we basically go through alone. People who aren&#039;t, or have never been, depressed cannot understand the depths of despair that depression can bring with it. 

It is my opion that part of the journey of depression is learning to let of the strings that tie us to other people. It&#039;s an experience during which we make ourselves a priority. Instead of looking outside of ourselves for someone else to fill the voids within, we discover how to fill those voids ourselves. 

I don&#039;t know the answer of how you can stop being so &quot;clingy&quot; but I imagine that when you listen within, you will hear the answers. What is it that you would need to do for yourself during this difficult time? 

Do know that even though it is difficult with your cousin, there are many resources available to you. You are never alone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Talin,<br />
I understand how difficult it is not only to be depressed, but also to realize that it&#8217;s something we basically go through alone. People who aren&#8217;t, or have never been, depressed cannot understand the depths of despair that depression can bring with it. </p>
<p>It is my opion that part of the journey of depression is learning to let of the strings that tie us to other people. It&#8217;s an experience during which we make ourselves a priority. Instead of looking outside of ourselves for someone else to fill the voids within, we discover how to fill those voids ourselves. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know the answer of how you can stop being so &#8220;clingy&#8221; but I imagine that when you listen within, you will hear the answers. What is it that you would need to do for yourself during this difficult time? </p>
<p>Do know that even though it is difficult with your cousin, there are many resources available to you. You are never alone.</p>
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		<title>By: Talin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Talin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 May 2011 00:51:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am depressed and when I reach out for help from my cousin, she pretends that it is not a big deal.  Then I find out she is going out every weekend and has never extended any help for me in these difficult times.  I want to stop being so &quot;clingy&quot; how do I do that?  It is obvious to me that I am not her priority.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am depressed and when I reach out for help from my cousin, she pretends that it is not a big deal.  Then I find out she is going out every weekend and has never extended any help for me in these difficult times.  I want to stop being so &#8220;clingy&#8221; how do I do that?  It is obvious to me that I am not her priority.</p>
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		<title>By: Five Tips for Surviving Depression &#124; Spiritual Readings</title>
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		<dc:creator>Five Tips for Surviving Depression &#124; Spiritual Readings</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Nov 2010 16:42:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Accepting the Unacceptable Reality of Depression &#124; Spiritual Readings</title>
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		<title>By: Depression &#160;&#124;&#160;Psychology Gal</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2010 16:10:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Dr. Annette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Annette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 20:39:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Albert Schweitzer said, “Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light.” Thank you Kathleen for always sharing your positive spirit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Albert Schweitzer said, “Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light.” Thank you Kathleen for always sharing your positive spirit.</p>
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